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The law defines reciprocal beneficiaries as two adults who are legally prohibited from marrying under state law.

This broad definition encompasses not only same-sex domestic partners but adult brothers and sisters, a widowed parent and a grown child, aunts and nephews, etc.

Those persons entering into a reciprocal beneficiary relationship must register their relationship as reciprocal beneficiaries with the Department of Health.

Who is eligible to enter into a reciprocal beneficiary relationship? 
• There are no state residency or U.S. citizenship requirements. 

• The two individuals must both be at least 18 years of age. 

• Neither individual can already be married nor be in another reciprocal beneficiary relationship. 

• The consent of each indvidual entering into the reciprocal beneficiary relationship cannot have been obtained by force, duress, or fraud. 

• The two individuals entering into a reciprocal beneficiary relationship must be prohibited by state law from marrying one another, which include but are not limited to relationships such as brother and sister of the half as well as to the whole blood, uncle and niece, aunt and nephew, widowed mother and her unmarried son, and two persons of the same sex/gender. ◆

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Chart 2: Family Care Leave Definitions

The following table is based on the US Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) of 1993. The Hawaii Family Leave Law includes family members not included in the federal law—such as parents and grandparent-in-laws, grandparents, and reciprocal beneficiaries.

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